A Dream is A Wish Your Heart Makes
18 years ago today, on September 22, at 5:23 pm Zachary Alexander “Fred
Astaire” Turner danced his way into this world-although a little bit early at
28 weeks. Fred, you were the miracle, the one that “could never be” but yet
there you were, proof that dreams can come true when you have the power to
believe in them.
The time has flown by. We all
knew from the beginning that you were brought into our lives for a reason and
every second that goes by, you are living proof of just that. From the little
boy that could act out the entire “Fantasmic” show on top of the coffee table
in full Mickey garb to the amazing young man you are today, dancing your way
through life, you touch the lives of every person you come into contact with your
gentle soul and have changed us all in so many ways.
It seems so cliché’ to say time passes in a blink of an eye-I
blinked once and we were celebrating your first birthday. I blinked
again, and you were off to school. And as days turned to months and months
turned to years, you grew and transformed before our eyes, growing into the
young man you’ve become today- a person who leaves me in awe with your
compassion, your ability to love and the ability to give of yourself so unconditionally. While
each of life’s milestones brought something new and exciting along the way, this
birthday milestone is unlike the others, and is breaking my heart just a tiny
little bit.
It’s hard for me to come to terms with the fact that this birthday means
that last of my babies has finally reached “that” age. You can sign your first
professional contract, finally audition for Disney, although now you will need a real ID to get
through airportsecurity, buy lottery tickets, vote and sadly, all too soon
will come the moment when it will finally be time to soar on your own (well as
soon as you learn to drive) As of today, although we all know you will always
be my baby, today is that right of passage when you become an adult-the world
awaits you and time will tell what impact you will have on. The one certainty
is that whatever direction life takes you, the world will be a better place
because of you.
Like your sister and brothers, you are not just an amazing son, but also
an incredible human being. You bear the strength of conviction, honesty, and
most of all, an inner self-confidence and someone I always have and always will
truly admire you.
Fred, you are the miracle, the proof that dreams and wishes can and do
come true, and today, on this, your 18th birthday, I wish for you the sun, the
moon, the stars, the Vorlon galaxy-and a little bit more. I wish for you the
life you were born and meant to live. I wish for you all of the beauty of the
world and the strength to see you through-no matter what life has in store for
you. Always believe in the
possibilities, live your dreams! Reach for the stars-they are out there waiting
just for you! No matter where life takes you,
always know that first, foremost and always, I will always be your mommy.
It seems like only a moment ago that I held you for the very first time
As I gazed down on you, I wished the world for you and throughout the years, you,
Heather, Kevin, Jason and Thumper have made all of my dreams some true. Now I
wish for you the same-dare to dream, live your life and don’t merely exist in
it and Believe….and miracles will happen.
Happy Eighteenth Birthday, Fred. With
more love than you can ever imagine – All my love-and a little bit more-Mommy
And now in true Turner family
tradition, a word from Heather and Jason….
Happy
18th Birthday Zachary. As I
sit here and think back to the past 18 years the first thing that comes to my
mind is “God I am Old” The next thing that comes to mind is I cannot believe
you are now old enough to vote, to play the lotto, to drive a car… wait you
were old enough to drive a car 2 years ago so where is that license?
But
while you may look all sweet and cute here we all know the real Zack…
And 18 years later he is still messy J Zachary from the many late nights of
sister/brother bonding to when you were a baby to seeing you walk across that
grass to get your pre-school diploma and then your high school diploma last
June to performing on stage with Disney Performing Arts I am so very honored to
be your big sister. I wish you a very
magical and happy birthday. Reach for
the stars and may all of your dreams become a reality. I love you very much and have a very Happy
Birthday!!! Much love, Sissy
Happy Birthday Zack, When I think of you
Most of my memories as a little kid have to
do with you and something Disney. The first would be of you putting on
shows in the living room dressed up as Sorcerer Mickey and doing a Fantasmic
like show. Always creating some new premise and using your Mickey Sword
flashlight like a magic wand. The next would be the Disney movies you would
watch over and over again "Air Bud" and "Aristocats".
All day long you would want to watch those movies and cry until they were
rewound (Before DVD).
Last but not least who can forget you and your not
one but two Cinderella dresses that you would wear as Pajamas because they were
soft. I have more but these were three that stuck out the most.
Happy Birthday-much love-Jason
Happy 18th Birthday Zack-May all your dreams come true! |
To see the young man who is emerging with kindness, exuberance and talent is such a joy. To know that the love of your Mom and Dad knows no bounds, that the love of Heather, Jason and Kevin have taught you how to be a wonderful brother, to be the twinkle in Papa's eyes and Grandma's love, to be the kind caretaker to the pug family, to be the special nephew of your Aunt Karen and Uncle Mike, the world is a much better, richer and kinder place because of you! Reach for the stars and know that you are loved always. Happiest 18th, Zachary!
ReplyDeleteKaren he is blessed and his life is richer because of the love he has been surrounded with all his life-especially from his Aunt Karen and Uncle Mike!
DeleteGayle,
ReplyDeleteThx for making me cry, this was beautiful!You're very blessed*O*
Bus Stop Buddy-there is not a day that goes by that I don't thank the heavens above for all I am blessed wtih-especially my kids and grandkids!
DeleteGayle, that was beautiful, I'm on my 4th tissue! I think when the Almighty was passing out miracles, He saw that you and Zack would be the perfect fit. Hope he had a wonderful birthday!
ReplyDeleteKelly we always knew there was some greater purpose to come into our lives when he did and every day that goes by we are reminded of this over and over
DeleteGayle, You said so many things I have said about our sons, they do grow so fast and in a blink of an eye they are gone. You have done a wonderful job with all you children!! Happy Birthday to Zack!
ReplyDeleteJudy as you know it is such a bittersweet celebration when all of your babies are now adults but as you and I both know, they all will always be our babies! What gifts all of our children are
DeleteWow, what a beautiful and moving tribute to your sweet boy Gayle. I am wiping away the tears as I read this. The then and now photos are wonderful, perfectly preserved by a loving mama >3 Happy Birthday Zack. May all of your dreams come true...
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